"I can't"

Last night at the Aries Full Moon/Lunar Eclipse Drumming Circle in the last round of drumming we had a few minutes at the end so I suggested that each drum to let go of something no longer needed that we've been "carrying" with us. I drummed for a few minutes before receiving what I was drumming to release. It was "I can't..."  "I can't do that or I can't learn that or I can't know that or I can't change that or..."   

This is what I've been carrying with me that needed releasing--the gift of the Eclipse is that I can change this story to not say "I can't." Then maybe I'll be on my way to "I can."